Thursday, March 26, 2009

Brad Shroades Sober Over A Year

I have meant to put this up sooner...but my family wanted me to blog that Brad has been sober for over a year....if you get a chance mail him a note of encouragement.

Brad Shroades
105 Harrison Street
Newell, WV 26050

Friday, March 20, 2009

Shout Out to Justin Swasey!

Rarely does a pastor have the joy of doing life with someone as awesome as Justin Swasey! He has bought in to the vision of seeing people come to Christ...this guy is passionate about Jesus.

I love and appreciate Justin for his constant encouragement. There have been very few people come to my rescue in nearly 20 years of ministry...especially those times I've just wanted to quit. He has been a great friend and confidant. Every pastor needs a Justin Swasey.

I love and appreciate your humble spirit, wisdom and love for the church. You are a great man of God!

Use this blog to let Justin know how much you love him!!!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

March Madness

Well, for the next month you will have put up with the insanity. I love this time of year. Its like hoops 24/7. And anytime the mighty Mountaineers are playing you can expect plenty of trash talking.

I want to encourage you to get on twitter.com so we can talk smack during the game. Over the course of this month I typically don't take a shower for fear of missing a good play. I will do all I can to avoid human contact. MARCH MADNESS is finally here.

This should be a paid holiday for all of America....tip off is just two hours away. I have two sepereate brackets. One was my person picks going with my gut...the other is on the ESPN Challenge. So let's look at the field. First, sorry to our boys of Troy...but you have to win when it counts.

I have to say Louisville looks strong....probably will win it all. But the Big East has 5 or 6 teams capable of going all the way. It could be a Big East final four. Duke is going home early. Missouri will surprise some people. Butler and Washington will send the weak SEC teams home in the first round.

Clemson might be stronger than you think, but the Terps will need some help. They are lucky to be in the dance. UConn will struggle...if things fall in their direction watch for them to make a push, but they will more than likely be a let down this year. Memphis....Overrated. No where as good as the were last year. Syracuse might be the sleeper. If WVU gets past Kansas you better keep an eye on my boys.

Finally, North Carolina is down with injury concerns. We will have to see. Tyler Hansbro cannot carry this team...he needs his buddy Ty. I will go ahead and make my ESPN pick my official pick.......Louisville Cardinals over the Pittsburgh Panthers in the National Championship!

That's my analysis of the game I will give updates daily...Two hours til tip time...gotta do alot between now and then...

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

These DOA messages are killing me!

I am currently doing a series called DOA...and it is killing me. When I started this I would have never dreamed that God was going to give me a spiritual tune up. Yet I know God is still working in me...trying to lessen Mike so that He can increase!

I want God to shine through me. I want God to preach through me. I want God to love through me. I want God to give through me. The only way I can do that is by getting rid of the me.

The prep for this series has caused me to struggle so much that I feel like I am dying. The great thing is...the more I take me out of the picture the better things seem to be. I know many of you are saying wish you would gotten out of the picture a long time ago. Its people like you that keep my flesh alive!

I don't know if I have ever loved my wife more than I do right now. My marriage is becoming everything I had ever dreamed it would be. In the corner of my bathroom mirror I have written "give up". So that everyday I will be reminded I give up my life for her.

I am about to add "take up" to the other corner. As a reminder to take up my cross every day. This came to me by way of a message on TBN. From a Word of Life board member...a friend...someone that ministry has put a strain on our relationship. I heard someone say one time that the cross was something that the flesh crawled upon to die.

This series has brought me into check...with family members, the church, and even what God's will is for my life. A place where honesty and reality have parked side by side ... and they're in the parking spot that is supposed to be reserved for the senior pastor. I am so NOT everything I should be!

Friday, March 13, 2009

UNLEASH Messages Challenge Me to the Core of Who I Am!


I just came from the UNLEASH conference in Anderson, SC and heard a couple of the most challenging messages I have heard in years. I went to this conference hoping that I could just be encouraged by the messages. No anticipation of bringing new ideas back to Christ-Life. I succeeded. You all will be glad to know that I am not changing anything at this point.


Well, I lied just a little because I am anticipating a change in me. I typically don't compare what one church has with what we have. Not fair to either of us...and that can get into coveting. I truly appreciate what God has done at New Spring...you can see the anointing that God has placed on Perry.


I do want to make a comparison.


New Spring & Christ-Life has been at it for just about the same amount of time...nine years. They have 13000 people, awesome facilities, and mega-bucks. One other thing they have is a staff that is 100% behind their pastor...not just paid staff...hundreds of volunteers. His staff is humble, thankful, and gracious.


Christ-Life had more in attendance than New Spring about eight years ago. I had the same vision of facilities that NewSpring now enjoys...we sit in a Catfish House. They gather for four services every Sunday. We have about 75 per week....which is actually up about 25 people since we moved from the old church. Its not that people have not given us a chance. We have had nearly 5000 visitors in the past nine years.


I need to make it clear I am about the numbers. Numbers is signs of life...growth...salvation...and I could go on. People that say numbers don't matter have not got a clue! I truly believe we should have no less than 1000 people in our worship services every Sunday.


Now, I want to tell you why we don't. Because of the Senior Pastor! I am not blaming arrogant staff, lazy Christians, the economy or even Word of Life. I take full responsibility! As the lead pastor of Christ-Life we have had glimmers of hope, but we never capitalized on it! That is the leaderships fault and I am the chief leader under Christ in this church.


For the past year I have really considered stepping down and allowing another pastor to come in to lead the church. I have looked and looked for the right changes to make. I have found it! It is me! I am the change that needs to happen. I have allowed frustration to drive me to near complcacency. Please forgive me for not leading as I should.



The lack of fire is my fault...the lack of passion for God and the lost is my fault. Noone in the church will be more on fire for God than me! Try it, I dare you!


Let me tell you where I have some serious changes to make:


1. I am going to spend more time with God!


That's it! What did you expect? One of my laundry lists. I cannot do it without God! I need more time with my heavenly Father. Its all about Him...right...then that's where I have to start...I need more of God in my life....NO...I WANT MORE OF GOD IN MY LIFE!


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

FREE LUNCH ANYBODY?

How about a little fun for today's blog!

I had lunch with one of the most famous people on the planet yesterday. This is a very famous individual...and I had know idea my family had such a close connection. This person can be seen in recent photographs with the likes of Tom Cruise and Britney Spears. I about came unglued when Brooke, Laurie, and I had lunch with this person. Most of us have been shaped in one way or another by this person and others in their affiliations. This person is about to take on another world famous role. Laurie, Brooke and I were the first persons that they told about the new role. I was blown away that such a person is a personal friend to my family. Lunch was a mystery til this person identified themselves...it was wild! Absolutely noone knew that we had planned a lunch with this person...they are so famous we met in a quaint restraunt and their identity was concealed until we met. I HAD NO IDEA.

Their identity must be so well kept that I need you to guess up to 10 people. If the name makes the list I will take you to lunch, but I cannot tell you who it is. Seriously, they are that stinking famous that noone can even know who I am affiliated with.

When I found out who my lunch was with yesterday I litterally came out of my seat, high fived the person and sat in total awe!

Hints:
1. Quite the character
2. Its not Jesus
3. Pro athletes, politicians, and the like would do anything to meet this person...and come to find out I knew them and didn't even know I knew them!!!

Monday, March 9, 2009

Is Church A Dictatorship?

IIII'mmm baaaaaaaack!

Gosh darn I missed you all! Its good to get back in the blogosphere. After a vacation like I have had...I need a break! Just kidding...all you fellow pastors out there be sure to take your much deserved time off as noone will force you to do it since you only work one day per week...and thats only for an hour.

Well, let me jump out of the ocean (vacation terms) right into the fire. I am a pretty regular follower of politics. It seems most politicians have "their " agenda. Isn't that true of most people? We all want it the way we would like to see it.

Politicians are the masters of promoting their own ideologies. Unfortunately, it seems that they surround themselves with those who offer blind followership. And when opposition arises those who oppose must be destroyed.

I actually have a soft spot for politicians. They say they want to make a difference and help the people. Unfortunately, the power they gain overtakes them and the working for the people seems to go out the window. As a leader, that happens to be a Christian, I would like to think that all I do is to better the people that follow me. Particularly, in their walk with Jesus.

The power given to a pastor is every bit as intoxicating as our politicians. We are given the authority to speak directly into the lives of people every single day. Some pastors speak into millions of lives daily by way of media resources. Other pastors find their sphere of influence to a hand full of followers. Regardless...there is a power that comes with that influence.

For years I have sought to find the proper balance of the use of the power granted to me by God to speak into the lives of His people. I abhor the mindset of its my way or the highway. At the same time I am frustrated by the lack of team work within His kingdom.

Toleration has crippled many churches that should have sought ethical ways to have their pastor removed from position. Other pastors have no business being in the place of leadership. I know that sounds harsh, but at times I have felt like I shouldn't be in leadership. My sin, my anger, my frustration, my mistakes, my attitude, my laziness, my selfishness and more have often brought me to the proverbial mirror and forced me to look at myself on many occasions.

On the other hand, some pastors have received unfair treatment at the hands of self-righteous, self-centered, undisciplined, rebellious, lying, cheating, cry-baby, equally frustrating, shallow, and may I say non-tithing church people. Any good pastor is going to get tithing in there some how. But, how are we to act with the power that is placed in our hands when it comes to leading the church?

My concern is that to many of us in authority rule more like dictators than those granted power from on high. I have been to the same conferences you have that encourage us to lead without worrying about what others think. We are told to surround ourselves with like minded people. I call them yes-men. Develop an up-yours mindset and push our agenda. Even brutally destroying those that object to our vision. Did you hear that...destroying those that don't agree with us! Sounds like Sadam Hussein.

Most Christians would consider themselves to be conservative, and thus detesting ideologies of liberalism being forced upon them. We openly criticize those that do things we don't like when they hold political power. We do that because we live in a country where we can disagree with our leaders. There are countries where the disagreement voiced concerning the leading regime could cost you your life.

So, why do we as leaders immediately go on the offensive when people don't see it like we do? How can we develop well oiled team-machines with yes-men? Why are ideas that aren't ours so intimidating?

Worse yet...how bout the extremist...who truly beleive that disagreement with them evokes the wrath of God for insubordination. Pastors that lead with fear tactics. Touch not my annointed...and that's me! God will get you if you disagree. This lack-of-leadership style scares me. But, I meet so many church folks that won't say anything for fear of what might happen to them. IF YOUR PASTOR IS NOT APPROACHABLE OR ACCOUNTABLE .... GET OUT! If fear tactics is your leaders response be very careful. So, fed up with church leaders that exalt their name above the Name above all Names.

Why do we have church leadership models that resemble dictatorships? I wonder what sort of modern day political model would actually work within the church?

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Heading to Christ-Life Florida w/ Laurie & Brooke


Laurie, Brooke and myself are preparing to be at the Christ-Life Florida campus this Monday night. Everyone make sure you come on out and bring a friend.


Guaranteed to be great night of fellowship & worship!


Laurie & Brooke are really excited about seeing everyone.

Friday, March 6, 2009

KEN TUCK SPEAKING AT CHRIST LIFE - ENTERPRISE CAMPUS

One of my favorite people on the planet will be guest speaker at Christ Life Enterprise campus this Sunday. None other than Ken Tuck will be sharing the second part of DOA this week. Ken brings a challenging word that is full of conviction...pushing us to share Christ with people that desperately need Him.

Martha will accompany Ken...so y'all catch up with them and treat 'em good!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Great Service..Congrats to the New Band Members

Just a shout out to all those who attended Christ-Life Enterprise campus this morning. It was a great crowd with lots of participation. We started a new series that I believe is going to impact the way we live for Christ.

Congrats to Chris and Gabe our newest band members!

New members will be taken into the church on Sunday December 15th. I will be on vacation this week so if anyone needs anything Brother Tony is in charge while I'm gone.

Christ Life Florida campus will meet Monday for a video message from Pastor Mike...

Love y'all see you next week,
PMS